Did you know there is a National Honesty Day? This annual observance, marked on April 30, was established by M. Hirsh Goldberg, former press secretary to the governor of Maryland, in 1990.

I firmly believe that honesty is one of the most essential qualities. It serves as the bedrock of trust within relationships, fostering confidence and sincerity. While I may not yet have children of my own, I can attest to the profound impact honesty has on the parent-child dynamic. In friendships, honesty plays a pivotal role in nurturing authenticity and wholesomeness, as conflicts often arise from mistrust rooted in dishonesty. Building trust can be arduous, but one falsehood can dismantle what has been painstakingly constructed. Here is what I know for sure, everyone appreciates honesty! Honest people are reliable; honest people are brave; honest people are caring.

Authentic honesty does not entail seeking out conflict or making caustic remarks. Rather, truly honest individuals skillfully navigate healthy conflicts while averting unproductive ones.

Who doesn’t appreciate someone who is forthright not only with others but also with themselves? In recent months, I have come to grasp the significance of being honest with myself. This reflection included recognition of my own flaws and understanding how these insecurities manifest in relationships with others. Embracing this period of self-reflection and honesty has enhanced my emotional intelligence and bolstered my confidence to be the best version of myself, not only for my own sake but for those with whom I interact.

True self-honesty breeds humility and demands courage. Don’t retreat from such a noble quality. Join me in celebrating National Honesty Day by embodying honesty and integrity in every facet of our lives.

Her Nexx Chapter invites you to join our free Community where women from around the world are connecting with each other’s stories, exploring different experiences, and transforming ideas.

The Future of Connection for Women